With a few parts/sensor changes, the 13+ engines can work with the 10-12s. Waiting for a "definitive" list from a SHOforum member.
http://shoforum.com/index.php?threads/2010-sho-threw-a-rod-new-motor-required.132357/page-3#post-1457410
That slight vibration while driving might be from the PTU. There is a TSB out for it, see if it fits what you are seeing:
http://www.revbase.com/BBBMotor/TSb/DownloadPdf?id=169301
The PTU is/should be disengaged in Park and Neutral.
http://shoforum.com/index.php?threads/2010-sho-threw-a-rod-new-motor-required.132357/page-3#post-1457410
That slight vibration while driving might be from the PTU. There is a TSB out for it, see if it fits what you are seeing:
http://www.revbase.com/BBBMotor/TSb/DownloadPdf?id=169301
The PTU is/should be disengaged in Park and Neutral.